BWB inventory at Building storage

From Doxie:

Holy Moly!

Last week I put out a call for help to take inventory at our storage space in the Albert Kahn bank building that now houses ANew Life Prosthetics

Dana McCombs came to my rescue and we busted our booties. It was dusty and dirty and we were sweating and got filthy, but  we got the space organized and accounted for and we loaded my car, with the help of Chris Casteel, with 30 more backpacks.

Huge thank you to Dana for her time energy and sweat.  And yes, when I found a box of mini deodorants, we each took one and used it, and we don’t feel bad…..because we smelled something fierce!

Inventory:
29 female backpacks
23 male backpacks
(we will try to get these out before end of April)

So here is our list of items to help us get ready for next year.;

1000 toothbrushes
Medium tote of maxi pads for women
Small box of deodorant and soap (minus two deodorants!) 
Three boxes and three tubs of full socks (I think we are good for a while on socks!)
Small box hotel toiletries
100 ps38 military can openers  (plus 50 more at home)
Large bin of gloves
Two Boxes of tissues
Large bin of hats
Five tubs of hygiene packs 
1/4 full postal tub of hand warmers
2 tiny army green packs
1 case of cereal bars
200 peanut butter packs
13 chap sticks
400 emergency blankets
248 emergency sleeping bags

The day after doing this inventory 7 cases of brand new backpacks showed up at my house. (That’s another 230+ backpacks!)…as
did 200 rain ponchos

Woot! That’s going to help a lot of people!

It is so wonderful having a space to store this stuff, and I just printed off labels to put on all the boxes so they are easy to find next year when we get ready to pack the backpacks!!

Aaahhhh…..

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WOOT….Buying Power Means Volume Discounts!!

From Doxie:

I have spent the last few days spending the money we raised the Dirty Show, did I mention we made just over $3500….YEAH!

I ordered supplies for next years Dirty Show- 80 canvases and more paint and…(drumroll)….

7 cases (35 per case) of brand new high quality backpacks….and…
200 rain ponchos…and…
125 gift certs from McDonalds!

We plan to give them out this summer with cold water!!

So thankful to all the lovely ladies and gents who pimped the booties off this year, and many did so in tiny sequin booty shorts, per the demand of Jessca our resident fashionista!! She is the Dirty show organizer asked if we could dress more “Dirty Show’ish” despite our always being in black and sexy, they wanted to amp it up…..think barechested men and g-strings! I was, of course, terrified and knowing how cold it always is in Berts. She suggested i just tell everyone they had to AMP it up..and they did ..the costumes everyone wore were fun and sexy and more..

Huge thanks for making Vadge Badges, for selling Vadge Badges, for pimping and kindly explaining what LuV a Cunt is and why we do it, for getting women afraid of it to understand it is about supporting them and getting past all the evils we deal with society and know other women do support them, for talking to the drunk girls and gauging which are too drunk to get prints, for making nervous boys understand its foreplay..and for so many other reasons… know your help, dedication and time are the Only reason this projects happens…thank you all so much.

Teal ,  Gretchen, Kim W, Irina,
Liz Lola,  Vic Rosey, Bacon
Jessca, Kathryn ,  Faith, Rabbit,
Athena, Bryan, Rowland,
Tony, Eva Ricky, and her cute boy toy!

i do hope i listed everyone..please know i am dearly sorry if you were overlooked.

Much Love …cunt love to everyone who was part of the experience and got prints done as well!!
~Doxie

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Dirty Show Brings in the Money, by Showing Some CUNT LUV!

WTF is that title about!?

We will get to that but first things first, we raised just over $3500.00 this year working our butts off pimping body prints, connections and Vadge Badges. The money raised goes to pay for the supplies to do this project again next year and then the rest goes to buy supplies for the Homeless BackPack project!

This crazy show brings out the best, and we are super grateful to Jerry Vile and the Dirty Show staff for giving us the place to do this.  Women love it and we really enjoy it too!

First an explanation of what we do:

Dirty Show and the “Luv a Cunt; Titties and Clitties” fundraiser….come get a body print!!

This was our 7th year in a row doing the project. We do it for two weekends on Friday and Saturday.  But what is it you say? This is how we explain it;

“Titties and Clitties” offer you the experience of being the subject of an intimate performance piece where you are the canvas, the medium and the art!

Every woman is a unique and lovely creature just as every breast and cunt is unique and incredible, therefore each single print made from your body will be a one of a kind impression of the foundation of your femininity.

Some of us produce very abstract results while others are very anatomical but all of them are beautiful!

Come and create a distinct and extraordinary piece of art that speaks of you from the most erotic places on your body.

Luv a Cunt

PS: The reason we call the project CUNT is this term has become a very derogatory word in our culture and that is Exactly why we use it ….to take away its power. Historically this word was not used to insult women but it was considered in some past cultures as very positive and many women use this word freely to help dissolve the negativity it now has and reclaim the word.

PPS: We don’t print vaginas anymore instead we make Vadge Badges, lovely felt pin made by a big craft group called The Kunts. We get together monthly to craft and cunt! We talk about life, drink and eat and mingle..its really just a reason to hang out with great people.

(will have a link to this years pix very soon.. )

For links to previous shows:

Love a Cunt – Dirty Show 2010

Love a Cunt – Dirty Show 2011

Love a Cunt Titties & Clitties – Dirty Show 2010

 To see the Vadge Badges brigade  click here

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On the Streets with Two Tonys and a Sando

Hit the streets Saturday, March 9th, with Tony, his son Sando and Anthony.  We cruised for about 4 hours all over the city and met some really nice people while doing so. In no particular order and this is for sure not all the folks we meet but this is sampling of our day on the streets of Detroit.

The first place we stopped was an underpass that Tony often sees someone at. We all got out and approached slowly. A gentleman was sitting down with a small fire between his legs to stay warm.  I greeted him and told him we had a backpack he if wanted. He did not want the backpack but he took the gift card to get a meal! His place is really tucked. I had never even noticed. It’s perfectly covered unless you are looking.

We saw a gentleman sleeping on the street near the big heat vents in Greektown. Anthony went up to him to leave a pack, I told him to leave it by his feet in case he woke us he didnt want to startle him. They chatted for a bit, Anthony said he was really thankful.

We also ran into Leon on the edge of Greektown on Beaubian near the huge street vents. He was wearing one of the Coats that turns into a sleeping bag designed by Veronica Scott and made my previously homeless women.

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It’s a coat, it’s a sleeping bag!

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He really likes the coat and let me spin him around to have a look. He had it all undone and was dragging the sleeping bag part but I didnt ask him why. He was wearing one of the new ones that are made of black..which makes wayy more sense then the white ones they used to produce. The black blends in better and hides the dirt too! He was really jovial and had a great smile!!

As we drove away we saw the first guy who Anthony never got the name of sorting through his pack!.

I stayed in the car a bunch this day after getting out lots of times to give the guys a feel for how I approach folks. They quickly felt confident doing it on their own.

They talked to Mike on the edge of Mexican town , he is not yet homeless, but he is under housed and about to lose apt and just lost job so he is hustling to see if he can make rent.

Mike in Mexican Town

Mike in Mexican Town


We ran into Milton just sitting on the side of the road over east of the Renaissance Center. He is from Detroit, born and raised, been on streets since February 2012, and is a real gentle soul. Last year he spent 68 days in jail. He seemed a little touched as he went off on tangent to tangent. He says he goes to AA from time to time and has elderly family but cant ask them if he can stay as it would be too much on them. He seemed to be in his early 50s.

Milton had been a surprise when we were really on our way to see Jose but we had to kill time by driving around the block because we saw another guy by a dumpster going the bathroom, so I figured he deserved some privacy. We caught up with him a few minutes later. His name was Jose, he has been on the streets a while and wanted to know if Anthony and Tony, who got out to chat with him, wanted to go extreme kiting!! sounds fun!

We gave a pack to a guy named Norm who is local and been on the streets over a year.

Over  by Springwell we ran into Al and Barney on the brige we gave them backpacks. They look out for each another they are a solid team.

At the end of the bridge we talked to Dan for a bit.38 from downriver i think he said. He actually has been to Florida five years in a row instead of hustling..he says he goes to Coco beach. Not allowed to hustle there.. you can not even have a backpack or they will get you for being a Vagrants.

He talks to Al and Barney but not many other folks, he doesn’t trust anyone else..but says those two are good people.

We went under the bridge and Tony was in front of me and moving too fast and could not hear me above the traffic..We could both see the feet of two folks on the other side..but what Tony was not able to gather from their stance is that they were about to do a deal or taste the score.. by time i got to him he was already engaged and talking to them. he was oblivious to the way they were huddled and the needles in there hands. We gave them packs them headed to the car..on the way i asked Anthony and Sando if the noticed anything..Anthony totally saw what i saw. so i kindly talked to Tony about looking and then looking..reading body language and knowing when to back off.
We are all naive at times..and this is not something most folks do daily.. we were all safe so that was good.

Over by lawndale we gave out a pack, then we met Cyless he is local been on the streets about 5 yr  used to drive trucks, but no jobs now.

We meet Dr. John..who is from Detroit and told us he has been on streets for “Too Long!”

I am thankful to the crew who went out that day and wanted to leave on a final note.. its from a tag i saw that day by one of the places we gave out packs.. it said “Anticipate your Needs”
it was written not so traffic could see it but guys on the edge of the highway hustling.. its something one of my uncles would have said to me and it just struck me.. and made me pause.

Needs for food, warmth, survival, next fix, all of the above. I can not imagine what it would be like to be on the streets, I can only hope I would have the streets smarts to anticipate what i would need to survive.

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Doxie’s Dish: How to Handle Panhandlers

I know you have come across panhandlers, we all have, but how do you handle this interaction? Yes sometimes we ignore ‘them’, or pass quickly and say ‘sorry’ if that feels right.

Sometime you may have given someone your meal coming out of a restaurant in downtown Detroit, I used to this all the time.  Before we started the Backpack Project, I figured it was helping out without hurting me too much and it gave people food to fill their bellies.

Maybe you even wonder what they do with the money? Do they buy booze, drugs, a night at a hotel to sleep?

This link is from Thrive Detroit magazine which is a successful business model for providing income to the homeless and vulnerably housed…so please when you see someone selling it..BUY IT!

Until then please read this artilce is entitled;”How Should I Help a Panhandler?” http://www.thrivedetroit.org/coupons/

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More Pictures from the December Backpacking Party!

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A Morning on the Streets of Detroit

Last Wednesday, I went to Avalon bakery as I had a small gift for Ms Bee. She often compliments me on my hats, so I decided to gift her one. As I was walking in, a man was on the stone bench outside half way to Good Wells. He looks at me and sort of yells; “Can you help me out?” in a sort of disinterested manner. Now I admit I am not used to being yelled at especially that early in the morning, but no matter the time I don’t really react well. However, I had gift certificates in my car and some backpacks so I thought I would walk over to him and hand him a gift card and see if he was interested in a backpack. I walked over said hello and asked him he wanted the gift card to McDonalds to get a meal and he just looked at me and rolled his eyes away. So I asked again and no reaction. So I wished him a good day and carried on to give Ms Bee her hat, which she loved.

 Not far from Avalon on the service drive heading toward First Street I saw a small man on the median and I rolled down my window as I rolled up and offered him a gift certificate and asked if he wanted a bag. He said yes, so I hoped out and grabbed one and told him what was in it and asked him he name and told him mine. He said his name was Billy and he is from Memphis, Tennessee.  He came up to see his mother and is hoping to get back soon. I wished him luck. At the next light was a much taller man whose name was Darnell and he was really polite he even thanked me by name, which stood out I guess because I don’t think I had ever noticed that most people don’t.  I was happy to help them both… and I still wish the man at Avalon a good day and hope he gets what he needed. ~doxieImage

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